9 reasons why you’re not losing weight

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9 reasons why you’re not losing weight

“Fitness is like marriage. You can’t cheat on it and expect it to work.” – Bonnie Pfiester, trainer and motivational fitness speaker.

Weight loss goals should always be coupled with adopting a healthy lifestyle. Staying fit and healthy is more than just staying slim. Weight loss should be about getting fit and healthy, having more energy, boosting your immune system and less incidence of illness. If you wonder at your always-slim-BFF polishing off a whole pack of chips, it would be just a matter of time before the effects catch up. Your body always remembers what you eat; it’s a fallacy that “you can eat whatever you want if you are slim”.

You can eat anything you want, provided that you burn the calories.

First, it’s not easy to burn calories given the time and effort you’ll need to exercise off those additional pounds. For example, a 1000-calorie burger will require running for 60 minutes at eight miles per hour for a 200-pound person to work it off. It’s much easier not to eat the burger.

Second, if you put junk in there and sweat out to burn off the extra calories, where is the question of nutrition? There will be no space for adequately nutritious food in your stomach if you fill it up with empty calories. Lose weight the smart way and not the hard way.

Weight loss as a battle to be won

Enjoying your new healthy lifestyle would make it less of a fight. If you feel you are always battling with cravings and exercise schedule, it means you haven’t discovered enjoyable ways to be fit and healthy. Give in to cravings once a week and remember to get right back on track the next day. Find what kind of workout fits your schedule and lifestyle. Read these  7 ways to stay fit without trying too hard.

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weight loss diet plans with mostly “don’t’s” are not sustainable

Weight loss diet plans with mostly “Don’ts”

If all of a sudden, you stop your body from eating what you’ve been eating throughout your life, it’s sure to rebel. A better way is to list down healthier versions of your favorites and also prepare a list of “cheat meals” you can allow yourself once a week. Here are 5 simple ways to make a diet plan work.

Too much emphasis on one type of nutrient

A protein-only diet (like protein shakes) or fruit-juice diets are becoming popular as a means to weight-loss, but they are not sustainable in the long run. Once you return back to normal diet, the body weight also returns, sometimes even more with more cravings because the body tries to compensate. Your body needs a good balance of vitamins, minerals, proteins, fats, and carbohydrates to be healthy. Too much emphasis on one nutrient will throw your diet off-balance and jeopardize your attempts in losing weight, says Pooja Makhija (the dietician who helps many Bollywood stars stay in shape) in her book “eat.delete.”

Take advantage of the tips from various diet plans by reading this article: What’s the best weight loss diet?

Liquid calories- the silent killer of weight loss goals

Okay, so you avoid cola, soda, and other fizzy drinks so now you are eating and drinking healthy, right? Wrong. The supposedly healthy fruit juices, smoothies, and cocktails can spike up blood sugar levels, even the ones with low sugar labels; not to mention the packed or canned ones which are stripped of nutrients and left with only sugar. If you have no option but to take the easy route by drinking nutrients (due to lack of time or resources) go for freshly made vegetable juices without sugar, of course. Another excellent tool for weight loss is water- it increases metabolism, makes you feel fuller, helps avoid water retention and has zero calories- every single thing that’s essential for weight loss.

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walking, jogging, cycling, outdoor games – choose any activity you love

OMG! It’s time to workout

Once you start dreading your exercise sessions, you miss the fun part of it and eventually stop trying. If you can’t dedicate time for a long workout, you can sneak in short exercise sessions in your daily schedule. Play outdoor games with family, find an exercise buddy, join weight loss groups on social media, watch motivational videos on weight loss and fitness or read health blogs 🙂 anything that steers you towards a healthy weight loss plan. Read Gym is not the only way to stay fit and healthy for more ideas.

Lack of planning and preparation

Once you decide to lose weight, the first thing you need to do is prepare yourself physically and mentally:

  1. Set aside sufficient time for cooking healthy stuff, especially if your family’s not going to eat the same food as you.
  2. Add work out sessions to your daily schedule.
  3. Get some help to take care of the kids when you exercise, on a daily basis.
  4. Plan your meal ahead of time, read up on meal prep and lunch box ideas.

All these take time and effort but within a month or two it would become a habit which sticks to you for life. See more tips on How to mentally prepare yourself for successful weight loss.

Obsession with weight loss

When you start off, losing weight might seem like an almost impossible task. It may be a cliche, but always works: break down your weight loss goal into smaller ones. For example, if you want to lose 30 kilos, aim for 2 to 4 kilos a month. By doing this you are taking the pressure off yourself in more ways than one.

You can always increase your activity levels step by step to push yourself harder or tweak your diet with more and more healthier options, once you get comfortable with your current weight loss plan.

Other ways to take the stress out of the journey towards losing weight:

  1. Allow enough time for your mind and body to adjust to your new lifestyle.
  2. Pick a range rather than a number which again reduces pressure.
  3. Compare yourself with your previous self and not with someone else, because each person’s body is different.
  4. Do not put your health at risk by aiming for a quick-fix solution.
  5. Resist the urge to weigh yourself every day, there are other ways to find out if your weight loss plans are working – try out the pair of jeans which you couldn’t fit into earlier or try walking up the stairs, running or cycling for longer than usual to see if you have more energy.

Of course, weight loss is not an easy thing to achieve, but don’t make it extra difficult for you by doing the above mistakes. Also, don’t be too hard on yourself, and allow yourself to give in to your cravings once in a while. Losing weight is not a punishment, but a journey you’ll begin to enjoy once you start seeing the results.

Have I missed out anything here? I would love to learn from you. Please comment below:

26 thoughts on “9 reasons why you’re not losing weight”

  1. Lack of planning and preparation can lead to failure in the main goal, starting from ourselves preparing everything and having to be consistent with what we want as well as weight loss planning, must be able to maintain daily routines so that proven results are real

  2. Thank you for a very optimistic advice on losing weight. There are many ways to lose weight, however, the counterpart that would also be the major reasons why we do not lose weight. Thank you for sharing these with us.

  3. It got me when you said that the person can join exercise groups or watch motivational videos in order to prevent themselves from dreading the exercise sessions. I will do the former since I find it easier to do work if I am doing it with other people. Listening to motivational videos may or may not work for me, so I will go with the more effective one. Thank you for the tips.

  4. For staying fit and healthy we always try to maintain our weight. This can be by exercise or by applying some others. But overweight is bad for all of us. You describe a great article on weight loss. I find here so many useful information and hope these will helpful for everyone.

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